Mother’s Day Sympathy Gift Ideas

No matter what the circumstances, Mother’s Day can be difficult for a grieving mom who has lost her child. Fortunately, with these Mother’s Day sympathy gift ideas, you can make the day more bearable and help her grieve in healthy ways that allow her to continue to hold onto memories of her child moving forward in life. We’ve also included some instructions on how to create your own handmade sympathy gifts as an extra bonus!

Flowers

Fresh flowers and/or a plant will always be a beautiful gift. Be sure to look at other Mother’s Day flowers, too. For example, lilies are traditionally associated with death (hence their use in funerals), but they can also symbolize love and new beginnings (think of how many Disney movies begin with once upon a time). Maybe you know your mom would appreciate her favorite flower or maybe you want to start over and go with something new. In either case, don’t be afraid to ask friends or family members if they have any ideas about what might be appropriate; after all, they know what she likes! The same goes for choosing a plant; is she more of an indoor/outdoor person?

Jewelry

Mums also appreciate fine gifts such as jewelry. You can pick one out together. Or you can select a piece or even a set from a catalog if you want it to be a surprise. Gold jewelry or pieces studded with precious gems could be your first choice. But there are traditional and timeless jewelry pieces you can choose for your mother that won’t break the bank. Think of elegant Mikimoto pearl earrings. They are dainty and classic and turn even a casual look into a sophisticated one. 

Decorative Items

An easy way to show someone you care without being too personal is to buy them a decorative item such as a frame, vase, or candle holder. You can choose items that match their decor or something they wouldn’t typically splurge on themselves. You can also buy something they need but have been putting off buying because of finances. For example, if you know your friend has a big family portrait coming up, you could surprise her with a gift certificate for photography services. The recipient will appreciate your thoughtfulness and be able to enjoy it instead of putting it on a wish list and forgetting about it. 

The Best Cards to Send

Cards are a quick and easy way to show your mom that you care. A card with an uplifting or inspiring message will let her know she has your support. If you’re having trouble finding that perfect card, try looking online at a website like Paperless Post or Minted. These companies have thousands of cards from which to choose. You can also create custom sympathy cards online in just minutes. They provide tons of templates and graphics as well as blank templates so you can write your own message from scratch.

Do Something Together

Spend some time with your mom—even if you can’t do something super special. It may not be easy, but it will mean a lot to her. Just spending time together might make her feel better. If possible, take her out to eat or go shopping together. If you live far away, send a card and flowers or plan a special family meal in advance and call in (or Skype) on Mother’s Day. Let her know how much you appreciate what she did for you when you were growing up and tell her how important she is to you now that you are older.

For Her Mind and Soul

It can be hard to know what sympathy gifts to get when a mother you love has experienced a loss. Mother’s Day gifts can be difficult if your mom has recently lost her child. However, some bereaved mothers have found that thoughtful Mother’s Day presents really do brighten their day. Something to help her relax such as these thoughtful sympathy gifts from Laurelbox that include a clay facial mask or soothing bath soak will remind her to take care of herself.

Personalized Items

Personalized gifts are always a thoughtful and practical idea. A variety of stores now offer personalized Mother’s Day gifts, including cards, frames, blankets, and more. Personalized items make wonderful Mother’s Day sympathy gifts; they’re not only thoughtful but also unique and special. If you’re at a loss for ideas, buy a blank item that you can have engraved or customized with your mom’s name or some other meaningful message. Many different businesses offer personalized gift options so do some research to find what will work best in your situation.

Whether you’re looking for something simple or you want to go all out, there is a perfect gift out there waiting to make that special mom smile.